I grew up on a 120-acre farm in Andrew County, Missouri, in the 1950s, 60s, and 70s. By age 11, I was driving tractors, feeding cattle, putting up hay, and doing all those jobs found on a diversified farm. Along the way, I learned the values that farm life teaches—hard work, resilience, generosity, and the equality that comes from everyone contributing what they're capable of.

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My parents exemplified those values daily. Dad helped neighbors who were struggling and was known for his fairness. Mom took food and clothing to those in need and helped young workers. They never told me I couldn't do something because I was a girl. On the farm, there was work to do. I enjoyed the physical work and also being outside.

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That changed when I entered the workforce. Despite my skills and dedication, I kept hitting barriers unrelated to my abilities. I moved from job to job, always encountering resistance to advancement. During one performance review, I finally understood what was missing from my "equipment"—a reality I hadn't been prepared for by my farm upbringing.

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Over decades of work, I have accumulated hard-won wisdom about life's challenges, maintaining values under pressure, and understanding what truly matters. Now in retirement, I find myself wanting to pass along these lessons—not just to my family, but to help others articulate the wisdom they've gained.

 

The Power of Letters in a Digital Age

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Recently, I wrote a letter to my great-grandson, Gunnar. (You can read it in the Services & Samples section.) As I wrote, I realized how much we've lost in our shift to texts, email, and social media. While these tools are convenient, they lack something essential.

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Face-to-face conversation allows us to notice tone, mannerisms, and pauses. It reminds us that there is a real person on the other side—someone deserving of respect, care, and thoughtful listening. An emoji may help express emotion, but it cannot replace a genuine human connection.

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And the written word? Will there be no more stacks of love letters tied with ribbon? No more trips to the mailbox to find a personal note filled with family news?

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Taking the time to write and send a letter to offer encouragement, support, guidance, or wisdom creates something tangible. A letter can be held, reread, and cherished. It becomes a keepsake for generations, not just a moment on a screen.​

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Why I Write These Letters

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After writing Gunnar's letter, I realized there may be others who carry important messages in their hearts but struggle to express them on paper. Perhaps it's too emotional. Perhaps the words won't come. Maybe they're not sure how to organize a lifetime of experience into something meaningful.

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That's where I can help.

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I firmly believe in the transformative power of words, especially when they are chosen with care and kindness. Words can lift spirits, brighten a day, and gently guide someone forward. Through careful listening and thoughtful writing, I help you craft letters that capture what's truly in your heart-letters that will be treasured for generations.